Build Confidence

Every person who is born must have the talent, intelligence or ability that is relatively distinct from one another. But sometimes they are hard to find these things in her that could not be reached for maximum achievement. In fact, sometimes someone trying to compare who has the ability to compare with others to make them feel inferior. And often times a person can not succeed not because they do not have the talent, intelligence or ability but because they do not have the confidence and good mental.

If we see the true world champion, whether in business, science, state politics, education, or even a religious, all have strong confidence. If they fail, they soon rose again. They dare to set targets, bold and courageous step began struggling to realize success. They continue to survive and move on even though success seems far from the eye.

One of the great figures is Colonel Sanders. At the time he was offering fried chicken secret recipe to others. It takes more than 1,000 times the rejection before he sold his first KFC franchise. That time when she was already fairly advanced, but thanks to the efforts and hard work he finally managed to realize the ideal goals.


Or the story about the discovery of incandescent light bulb by Thomas A. Edison. Before managed to find the light bulb, he had nine hundred and ninety-nine failures and only a thousand experiments that he managed to create the first light bulb. And when asked in an interview by Napoleon Hill, Mr. Edison's what you feel when experiencing failure 999?. Mr. Edison replied, "I'm sorry I have never failed, I've found 999 ways not to do to create a light bulb". An extraordinary word that can only be uttered by someone who has confidence and high self-confidence of what he was doing.

From the above story provides inspiration and encouragement to us that the belief in the achievement of goals and unyielding spirit will be a key determinant in the success of life. Because you never know, when the arrival of success. May seem far away, despite being so close. Courage to keep trying is the key factor that distinguishes between a person who fails to successfully achieve their dreams.

Try for a moment you think if in the middle of the struggle, they surrendered to the failure and did not continue what the ideal goals. What will they feel at the end of his life? Remorse or kebahagiankah they feel?. Now let us ask ourselves, do we so easily give up and quit trying in an effort to achieve dreams that we want in life? If you feel hesitant to go for it, check back on yourself, whether your dream is something really worth fighting for and gives meaning in our lives? If yes, then the achievement of those dreams you must strive for. Make this dream a responsibility, something we will regret if we never achieve it. Then wrapping it with a paradigm of faith to try again. Any obstacles that would happen, we always believe in our dreams, and then we got up and tried again.

By developing a positive mental self, then we will have a strong confidence. Finally, keep striving to achieve dreams and goals in your life. Because in fact there is no true success without going through a process of failure. When the failure came to rest assured that you already are one step closer to success. Do not let fear of failure to eliminate the true purpose of your life.

By: Dipankara Jayaputra
Source : Yuk Bisnis